Letters to Wo

- what do you think?

Ever since we met he has talked about his fantasy of a threesome but I think he should stop now we are getting married!

From the very first real date we had, he has mentioned how he always wanted a threesome in bed, by which he means him and two girls of course. I don’t know why he has that particular fantasy and I have never encouraged him in any way. The way he says it is like a joke and he has never done anything about it, but it is annoying. For example, we will meet friends and there will be a new girl there and he will whisper in my ear “How about her?”. Obviously there is no chance at all of me letting him have his way and at first I didn’t mind him going on. Now we are getting married though and I think it is time for him to stop this. I don’t want to be at our wedding feast and have him look at one of the bridesmaids and start making his usual suggestion in my ear!


Wo says: The fantasy itself is common in men, although they have so much trouble satisfying any one woman that I don’t know what they think would really happen if they had two. Clearly you need to have a very direct conversation with your man to explain how this makes you feel. Perhaps you could compensate him though by developing a second persona – that is a different character that you play sometimes in bed that is different from your normal character. That can allow him to imagine that he has two women, even if they are both really you. Role playing in bed is a pretty good way to keep your relationship fresh anyway.

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